6 Things People Should Give Fewer Fucks About

Mark Manson
15 min readJan 10, 2022

1. Mass Shootings and Terrorism

You probably thought I was going to start this list off with something cute and cliche like, “Stop caring what people think about you,” right?

Well, fuck that. Let’s offend some people.

I think we should care less about mass shootings and terrorism.

I’m not saying we shouldn’t defend ourselves or that these events don’t matter or that gun violence in general isn’t an issue. I’m simply saying that our emotional and social reactions to mass shooting incidents are both unnecessary and potentially harmful.

First, there are the practical considerations: you’re as likely to die from a refrigerator falling on you as a terrorist attack, and mass shooting deaths constitute less than 1% of gun-related deaths in the US (pro tip: ⅔ of gun-related deaths are suicides). If we’re going purely by statistical effects on society at large, these don’t even rank in the top 10 in terms of threats or dangers to the population.¹

But here is why it seems that mass shootings and terrorism (and let’s be honest, they’re almost the same thing) are such a big deal:

Because they go viral.

Today, culture is dominated by what gets attention for the simple reason that…

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Mark Manson
Mark Manson

Written by Mark Manson

Author of #1 NYTimes Bestseller ‘The Subtle Art of Not Giving a Fuck’. OG Blogger. Psychology Nerd. I enjoy cats and whiskey. But not at the same time.