Why We Do Things We HateMany of us harbor a deep-seated desire to adopt a particular identity, often picturing ourselves as something that we are not.Nov 2529Nov 2529
How I Quit Smoking For GoodI smoked my first cigarette when I was 12 years old. My friend and I stole his mom’s pack out of a cupboard late at night and smoked them…Nov 429Nov 429
5 Massive Books That Are Worth Your TimeI love massive books. Books so big, like bricks, you could drown yourself in a pool with them if you’re not careful. It’s not a healthy…Oct 14130Oct 14130
3 Unexpected Benefits of MarriageI n my younger years, I was what would be described as a “player.” I put a lot of effort into sleeping with a lot of women. Unfortunately…Sep 932Sep 932
The Breakthrough Fallacy — What Change Actually Looks LikeBefore Gandhi was Gandhi, he was just a lawyer. And apparently, not a very good lawyer. Then in 1893, while taking a train in South Africa…Aug 2649Aug 2649
114 Books Reviewed in (About) One ParagraphI read lots of books. My readers know I read lots of books. Ergo: I get asked for book recommendations all the damn time.Aug 1230Aug 1230
Why It Can Be Good to Doubt YourselfJames Warren Jones was a charismatic minister of a church where he built up a congregation by specifically appealing to minorities, the…Jul 2914Jul 2914
The Right and Wrong Ways to FlirtI n my previous article about Vulnerability in Relationships, I bashed using teasing/banter as a basis for demonstrating sexual interest. I…Jul 1525Jul 1525
How to Make Your Own LuckWe’ve all had the feeling at some point in our lives where it seems other people catch all the lucky breaks while we seem to be screwing…Jul 127Jul 127